South Africa continues to grapple with an alarming surge in gender-based violence (GBV), a crisis that has recently been spotlighted by the shocking murder of 25-year-old Nontobeko Cele in KwaZulu-Natal (KZN). Tragically, her killer, Sibusiso Lawrence Ntaka, shared a confession on social media, leading to an outpouring of support from some individuals online. This disturbing response has drawn sharp criticism from experts and activists, who emphasize the worsening societal attitudes toward GBV.
A Grim Incident Sparks Outrage
Nontobeko Cele was brutally stabbed, with her body left in the middle of a gravel road in Scottburgh, KZN. A broken knife was discovered at the crime scene, a grim reminder of the violence inflicted upon her. Police reports indicate that Ntaka, the alleged perpetrator, later took his own life by hanging. Before his death, he posted a video on Facebook justifying his actions, citing financial support he had provided to Cele and allegations of betrayal.
Shockingly, many on social media expressed sympathy for Ntaka, with comments blaming Cele and even condoning the violence. Such reactions highlight the deep-rooted misogyny and victim-blaming culture that persist in South African society.
Experts Speak Out Against GBV and Social Media Support
Advocate Brenda Madumise-Pajibo, director of the feminist organization Wise4Afrika, has voiced her concern about the ongoing GBV crisis. She attributes part of the problem to selective outrage and societal attitudes that often excuse perpetrators while vilifying victims.
“Every time there is a GBV case, society always talks about something the woman did which angered the man,” Madumise-Pajibo noted. “Taking care of your partner does not mean you can take her life anytime you feel like.”
This sentiment is echoed by Police Minister Senzo Mchunu, who condemned Ntaka’s actions and the social media responses supporting him. Mchunu stressed that violence is a betrayal of shared humanity and urged families to help individuals displaying signs of mental instability by alerting professionals.
The Role of Misogyny and Victim-Blaming
Not InMyName International secretary-general Themba Masango condemned those who justified the murder, labeling such rhetoric as deeply misogynistic. He pointed out that this mindset shifts accountability from the perpetrator and perpetuates stereotypes that hinder the fight against GBV.
“This rhetoric implies that the victim deserved to be murdered. It not only diminishes the value of human life but also encourages men to eschew accountability for their actions,” Masango stated.
A Broader Societal Issue
South Africa’s GBV crisis is not new, but incidents like this bring into focus the urgency of addressing the societal factors that perpetuate violence against women. Experts agree that:
- Education is critical to changing attitudes about gender roles and relationships.
- Mental health support for men is essential to prevent violent outbursts and promote healthier coping mechanisms.
- Community accountability can help dismantle the cultural norms that excuse or normalize violence.
Call to Action
The fight against GBV requires collective action. Advocates are calling for:
- Stronger enforcement of laws against GBV.
- Comprehensive outreach programs that target all demographics.
- Active condemnation of misogynistic narratives, especially on social media.
South Africa must stand united in rejecting any form of support for violence, whether overt or subtle. By doing so, the country can honor the lives lost to GBV and work toward creating a society where women feel safe and valued.
Final Thoughts
The tragic murder of Nontobeko Cele and the troubling reactions it elicited are stark reminders of the work still needed to combat GBV. As advocate Madumise-Pajibo aptly stated, “No one is supposed to kill a person no matter what happens.” It is time for South Africa to collectively reject violence and foster a culture of respect, empathy, and accountability
